Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Mr Mike...Karate....and it's only Tuesday! :)
Monday, April 27, 2009
Another weekend down...but Oh what fun it was!
As far as the weekend goes...as I said before, we played outside alot! Mainly playing ball tag with his red ball. he cracks me up when we play hard because he runs around laughing and giggling...then he runs up saying, "I need some water! My heart is beeping soooooo fast!" It cracks me up every time! He has been doing great with the whole sportsmanship thing too. He doesn't melt down like he used to unless he is starting to get really tired. He even fell and skinned his knee last night. It took a moment but he recovered pretty well. I couldn't be prouder of him here lately. Lord knows I love the stew out of that boy and he is learning everyday to manage his challenges more and more. Don;t get me wrong...he will always have them, and he will at times have bad moments, but learning to manage them will help him to be the independent guy he needs to be to live in this ever changing world. You go G man....we love you to the whole wide world just like you are!
One more thing...he has decided to be in the talent show on Thursday night at this school. I hope he doesn't get scared or afraid because his little dance shows and lip singing and/or singing are a site to behold. (At least to us they are wonderful) I hope he shares proudly with the school family that night. It would be a real boost for him. He is such the drama guy/dancer/actor. Hugs and love everyone. Will be sharing again soon.
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
So proud of Greyson lately...

Monday, April 20, 2009
A new week has begun after a busy busy weekend!

Saturday, April 18, 2009
Momom's Birthday! Happy Birthday we love you to the whole wide world!
We have had a great weekend thus far. We went to eat dinner at a friends house on Friday evening where there are plenty of kids for Greyson to play with while Michele and I visit. It is always a good time and they are definitely a fun group and rather wild I might add. They make us laugh. We got home late and Greyson was walking asleep. It was soooo funny. He needed a shower due to playing hard outside, getting wet and dirty and then stewing in it for hours. I got him showered and we let him watch about 10 minutes of his shows before he crashed hard. What a great guy he is. This morning we woke up and he has been seeking out deep pressure sensory all day. He has buried himself several time sin the sofa under the main cushions. not sure why he is doing that more today than he normally does but he is. I have been ensuring to hug him and squeeze him alot today too due to his need for this. This morning right after we woke up momom wanted a birthday breakfast so we went to her favorite breakfast place....House o' Pancakes. It was great and then we headed home to clean and stuff to get ready for some fun. She built her new grill so we will cookout and I think the neighbors may drop by as well as a few others. Nothing big this time around but a little fun still. We made sure to bring some of our school buddies/parents over for fun and it helps Greyson as well to have some buddies to play with. He is currently with Michele at Clinton's birthday party at Frank Lisk Park...fishing, playing games, and eating treats. They should be home soon to enjoy our deck though...and Shel's new grill. Happy Birthday momom! I love you and I am thankful to have you in our lives! Greyson thinks you are the best wrestling buddy and mom ever! :) Today is your day...Hope it is the best for you! hugs....and love to all of our friends!
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Everything is Tuesday...Feeling Lightheaded and Woozy...

Today I took Greyson to school. I got to see his room with all the tadpoles awaiting to be transformed into frogs and see all the beautiful kids that make up his class. It's a hodgepodge of little personalities in there that I could never begin to explain. All of them very special in there own little way. They get really excited to show you the tadpoles and their growth. Well today...they had a new thing to show off in the aquarium. It seems some snails hitched a ride in with the creek water and had babies. Now the tank is full of tadpoles and snails. I swear I should have saved that baby snake this weekend. Suzy would have loved that to add to their menagerie of critters. hahahaa Greyson was proud today to take in the butterfly tree house we got for his class. we are awaiting the arrival of the caterpillars that go in it but they should be here this week according to "Insect Lore". Then his class will also have them to watch transform before their eyes. How will they be able to stand all this excitement? Whew! He has been doing well lately. Alot of outside play time here at the house which in turn results in a calmer boy and a boy who falls asleep better. Hopefully his days in school are better as well. Not that they were bad before...I just think when he can burn off alot of his nervous energy it shows in his actions/behavior. In a positive way for sure. He lost his silver tooth tonight so the tooth fairy will be coming. Hopefully momom learned her lesson on saying the "Easter Bunny" may not come next year. So she shouldn't be saying any of that crazy talk tonight about the tooth fairy! That blew up right in our faces so I think she learned to let it happen in it's own time. With him it may be awhile. :) He has this sweet & oh so innocent and naive side that may embrace that for years to come. I am good with it either way. Well...he just got his bath which means he will be yelling for me to come lay down with him any minute. He had a spider episode on the neighbors trampoline tonight which all but entailed calling Charlotte's Finest to come kill it. That means he will have issues for a few days more than likely involving being very afraid of every little thing and even of things that are not even there. That's just how it works. I have to be in site when he uses the restroom, goes into another room, etc etc.... Fun fun fun....Thank you Mr freakin' spider! hahaha Along came a spider....and then all hell broke loose! That's what the story should have said! Good night everyone. Sweet dreams to all and hugs and all that stuff... Ya'll come back now ya' hear?
Monday, April 13, 2009
Easter has come and gone...Back to school today!

Friday, April 10, 2009
Easter is just around the corner

Hippity Hoppity Easter's on it's way! Yes...we have been on Spring Break this week. Only to entertain a virus that was relentless in it's attack of our house and it's occupants. Now that everyone has gone it came back after Michele and she is down for the count. Hopefully this will signify the end of the damn thing now that our break has come down to it;s final 3 days...one of which will be taken up by momom being still sick. It's been a ride and as far as I am concerned OSHA should have been here the first night installing harnesses and safety belts on our 2 toilets! LORD! I think the CDC, Center for Disease Control, called several times but no one couldn't answer the phone for being strapped to the toilet and/or 5 gallon bucket. Greyson is hanging in there. His energy levels are back to maximum capacity and he needs to run...and run...and run...That being said I am meeting some folks at the park today and praying I do not bring along our germs to share with them. That way he can at least burn off some craziness before the rains come....I hope. He is so funny. After that he and I will hit the grocery store...pray for me. He is never fun to take there, but what kid likes it? Probably not too many that do if I were to bet. I still need to do my Easter Bunny shopping since I haven't had one moment lately to deal with that. So....Hippity Hoppity off I'll go if momom can keep him occupied for a moment later. We shall see how she feels. We are opting out of my sister's big Easter feast in Raleigh as I do not want to germ up there house. We will figure something out for here and have one last day of what I hope will be a pleasant end to this interesting break. Hugs.
Thursday, April 9, 2009
Survival of the dreaded Virus - Spring Break 09

Well...I feel like it has been forever since I have updated this. Greyson started his Spring Break on Friday, April the 3rd. Uncle Rich had been here almost a week and his wife and kids were coming to join him in searching for houses and to just plain visit. Well...it turned out to be not so much fun for anyone as Greyson on Saturday had gotten sick. We thought on Sunday he was better so Shel and I took him to the park only to leave as soon as we arrived. He was still very sick and it reared it's ugly head once again. He was very sick all night Sunday and into Monday and by Monday afternoon the 2 teenage boys had gotten it. I cannot even begin to tell you all how horrible this was. Both exits of the body for anyone having it were effected and we have an 1100 sq ft home with only 2 restrooms. NOT PRETTY! It was already a little cramped as far as sleeping etc....much less adding sick folks with issues needing a bathroom every few minutes. Whew! Well...by Monday around 12am I had become the lucky winner of this funk. I was sick all night long with moments of elation from the Tar Heels winning the National Championship! Nothing like being on the toilet with a 5 gallon bucket in your hands and between retching thinking, "Way to go Heels!" I am not right but most of you who follow this already knew that painfully well. Well the next day I still felt like poo on a stick but I wasn't getting sick anymore....just queasy and plain yucky feeling. That's when poor Faith the youngest daughter joined in on the fun. She was sick all day Tuesday up until late into the day and finally by Wednesday was much better. But we aren't done yet....Tuesday after dinner Michele's brother Rich had gotten it. He pucked all night while I listened in. I didn't really want to hear it but our home is the size of a cracker box...and due to my feeling like shit all day Tuesday and lying in bed I could not sleep that evening. Isn't life fun sometimes and full of humor! Here it is every ones Spring Break in a tiny house in Charlotte...and for 5 days someone if not several at a time are sick. 5 Gallons buckets of barf all over the house....bathrooms occupied almost constantly....It WAS NOT PRETTY people. Really! But here we are and it is Thursday. Michele & Erin, (Rich's wife) somehow have thus far managed to escape the wrath of this wonderful and entertaining virus. Some of us just have all the luck I guess. I however and soooo ready to run away to the beach....sit by the shore and just take it in. Watch the waves crashing...listen to the beautiful sounds the come with the package, and just chill. However....this will have to be done in my head. Somehow though...it's not working for me. I definitely need the real thing. One of these days.
Greyson is doing well. He has had some moments wanting his world back if you will. Being sick and being around everyone sick was hard for him to grasp at times. He just wanted to play once he was well and he couldn't just have run of the house. Not easy to explain but we managed. Michele was great and stayed home form work to take him to a movie since I was down for the count along with most everyone else. They went to see Monsters vs. Aliens in 3D. Greyson was apprehensive at first but then finally embraced the glasses and the whole package of the 3D movie. She said he yanked his glasses off a couple of times to ensure nothing was really there because he was freaked out but he did really well. He was excited to tell me all about it and in his usual fashion has already memorized alot of parts form the movie. Go figure! We also bought him the Bolt movie and he loved watching that. Thanks Susan! He is soo funny and I am glad to see him back to his normal self. he had been so pitiful for days that on Monday I had called the doctor to see if she would see him. He snapped back before we needed to go though. Thanks goodness. Well...glad I could check in and tell you about our ordeal. It wasn't pretty but hopefully it is over with. Have a great rest of the week everyone. I think for us it can only go up from here. Yay! Sunshine, parks and lots of fun in the last few days of break. Hugs to all...
Monday, April 6, 2009
Back again...finally and it's Monday already!

Friday, April 3, 2009
Spring Break is finally here....Yay!
Thursday, April 2, 2009
World Autism Awareness Day - April 2nd 2009 & the kittens have arrived!

Wednesday, April 1, 2009
It's almost Spring Break for G man...

We are nearing the end of the week...or at least we are half way there. Today is April fools day and we were trying to teach Greyson what to expect of a day like this. He didn't quite get it though. he untied Michele's shoe...and then said "Momom! your shoe's untied!....APRIL FOOL!" I then explained that her shoe needed to stay tied for that to work. He just stared at me....hahahahaaaa. oh well...I am sure he had fun regardless of the understanding the whole thing. He has had a great week even though he has been going to bed much later than I would like. Our world is a little off because uncle Rich is here and he wants to play with Michele and or Uncle Rich 24/7. When they come home late that poses a problem and he doesn't understand that he can't stay up forever. We manage to get to bed at some point and then battle him the next am to get ready for school. He had a great day yesterday with plenty of exercise. I am beginning to think that him burning ALOT of energy is key to him being calm, listening better, and being more focused. He played from the time he got home until bedtime almost. Jumping on the trampoline...then swinging...then heading to Karate and being there for 45 minutes exercising non-stop...then back home to the trampoline & swing. He was exceptionally good last night listening the first time and doing what he needed to do. I hate our home isn't bigger because I got some awesome ideas for an indoor basement playroom while at OT today. I would turn it into a place he would never want to leave. Swings, climbing walls, zip lines, and an indoor slide. Bean bags everywhere...all sorts of stimulation for sensory, fun, and exercise. We could paint a wall with fun stuff too! It would be awesome....Greyson's indoor playground! The one in the magazine was unbelievable! I would love to do that for him...we could have playdates...sleepovers...all sorts of fun together. But for now...maybe we can do a few things in his room to make it special and encourage his spending more time in there. At night especially...hahahaa...I am getting beat and kicked to death! It will all happen in it's right time. for now...this week is wonderful and we have 2 days left until Spring break....a week of play dates in the park and lots of fun. Get ready friends...we'll be calling to play if it is nice out! Happy Wednesday everyone!
In Honor of Autism Awareness Month (April)

Autism is a complex neurobiological disorder that typically lasts throughout a person's lifetime. It is part of a group of disorders known as autism spectrum disorders (ASD). Today, 1 in 150 individuals is diagnosed with autism, making it more common than pediatric cancer, diabetes, and AIDS combined. It occurs in all racial, ethnic, and social groups and is four times more likely to strike boys than girls. Autism impairs a person's ability to communicate and relate to others. It is also associated with rigid routines and repetitive behaviors, such as obsessively arranging objects or following very specific routines. Symptoms can range from very mild to quite severe.
Autism was first identified in 1943 by Dr. Leo Kanner of Johns Hopkins Hospital. At the same time, a German scientist, Dr. Hans Asperger, described a milder form of the disorder that is now known as Asperger Syndrome (read more). These two disorders are listed in the DSM IV (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) as two of the five developmental disorders that fall under the autism spectrum disorders. The others are Rett Syndrome, PDD NOS (Pervasive Developmental Disorder), and Childhood Disintegrative Disorder. All of these disorders are characterized by varying degrees of impairment in communication skills and social abilities, and also by repetitive behaviors.
Autism spectrum disorders can usually be reliably diagnosed by age 3, although new research is pushing back the age of diagnosis to as early as 6 months. Parents are usually the first to notice unusual behaviors in their child or their child's failure to reach appropriate developmental milestones. Some parents describe a child that seemed different from birth, while others describe a child who was developing normally and then lost skills. Pediatricians may initially dismiss signs of autism, thinking a child will “catch up,” and may advise parents to “wait and see.” New research shows that when parents suspect something is wrong with their child, they are usually correct. If you have concerns about your child's development, don't wait: speak to your pediatrician about getting your child screened for autism.
If your child is diagnosed with autism, early intervention is critical to gain maximum benefit from existing therapies. Although parents may have concerns about labeling a toddler as “autistic,” the earlier the diagnosis is made, the earlier interventions can begin. Currently, there are no effective means to prevent autism, no fully effective treatments, and no cure. Research indicates, however, that early intervention in an appropriate educational setting for at least two years during the preschool years can result in significant improvements for many young children with autism spectrum disorders. As soon as autism is diagnosed, early intervention instruction should begin. Effective programs focus on developing communication, social, and cognitive skills
For further information on Autism please go to www.autismspeaks.org
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